For millions of parents around the world, the day does not end with the school bell. There are still pictures to be painted, songs to be sung and games to be played. This all adds up to keeping children happy, safe and out of trouble. But, parents have to steer away from going overboard.
After school is not baby-sitting:
After school activities thrive only if it is backed by sufficient parental involvement. What would a soccer match be without parents cheering their little heroes from the sidelines?.
Research and choose:
Instead of convenience being the decisive factor, find out things that will interest your child. Once you select a program, get the fine print and find out what you have to contribute. Be sure to choose an activity that your child loves to do, it won't be fun for you or your child if you have to "force" them to go every time.
Many children attend piano classes, followed by ballet and squeeze in some time for play dates in between just before they rush home in time for bed. This rigor is too much for a child. So, go slow. Start out with one or two activities a week. See which one the child really enjoys and cut back on the other one.
When to quit:
Often, parents enroll their child in an activity to discover that he may not be the prodigy they thought he would be. This is the time to let go. Your child may not become the next wonder-kid. But, let him cultivate an interest that he enjoys. Remember, happiness and fulfillment are all that matter.
Just remember that after school activites are there to help a child grow, have fun, make new friends and find out what they are good at. Don't press the issue if a child wants to stop doing an activity it will only hurt their self esteem if you keep making them do an activity they do not feel comfortable doing.]]>